Big Decisions
Hi ladies! First I have to thank you ALL for your support, it's been so amazing to get all the positive feedback and wonderful suggestions for locations, and how to relieve stress. I'll always be grateful.
After a long talk with my finace, we've decided to halt our wedding plans for now, and have a long engagement. Since I just moved to the area, and am adjusting, not to mention my finance working on his PhD, things are hectic at best. So add a wedding on top of that, neither one of us are enjoying it. We've dated for almost 7 years, so another 2 years of waiting, is no biggie for us.
I'm extremely relieved. Rushing into wedding plans right now isn't the wisest choice for us at the moment. I think taking some time to just enjoy our engaement will help us a lot right now.
I'll pop in every now and then to see how things are progressing for you all. I wish you all happy planning, happy weddings, and happy birthdays. ;-) Talk to you all soon!
posted by Tammy @ 8:57 AM
4 Comments:
Tammy-
Enjoy your engagement! You are definately right... another 2 years is really no biggie. Sounds like you and I were (are) pretty much on the same boat. We have the men of our dreams and waiting just a bit longer for our fairytale wedding doesn't seem so bad. But like you told me, don't be a stranger to these boards. We can still talk about non-wedding stuff too! But good luck and happy engagement!
<3 Sok
Tammy,
It sounds like you and your fiance made a thoughtful decision, and certainly the best decision for the two of you and that is all that matters. I agree with everyone else, don't be a stranger to the board.
Good luck!
Kelli
Good for you! Another year or so won't matter for the wedding- you've been together so long anyway-but it will give you time to get settled, not stress, and really prepare yourself for the wedding planning process. I'm glad your fiance was understanding and I think you'll be happier now too! Just keep in touch... no need to be getting married to chat with us :)
Thanks ladies, I thought I'd drop in on the board, and can't help but give my 2 cents. It is kind of a relief to not be planning and still get good ideas for "some day" down the line.
I'm scared of BDC and don't go on there anymore. LOL.
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