Here's a good one..

I just don't know why I have to deal with drama... Why? Ok so I just got an e-mail from my cousin who will be my Matron of Honor next September. It's a little over a year away. Plenty of time to plan ahead accordingly because she is pregnant now. The baby is due in August (couple more weeks!). So she has been having some problems with her new husband. Very controlling, doesn't like it when she visits her parents, and so on.... I guess he had told her that traveling with a baby that young is not a good idea. The baby will be 13 months old by then! And I have known babies to travel when they are younger! She basically told me in the email that she might not be able to come down. I am not going to get upset over it right now because it is a "maybe". But just the thought of her saying that really pisses me off. There is plenty of notice here. My family knows that it's next year and some have already begun to make arrangements... What pisses me off is that I went to her wedding and was in her wedding on 8 weeks notice. At the drop of a dime. I found out right after Xmas and it was during my last semester of school.... *big sigh* My husband and I spent almost 2 grand for going. I love her to death and we are as close as sisters but am I wrong to feel this way.. Nothing is a guarantee right now but it still hurts that she would even tell me that she might not come.... Thoughts? What should I do? Should I just let it go for now?... Thanks Ladies!